Heads up mistresses! You’re Walking on the Frying Pan into the F-I-R-E

There is nothing good for a woman hooking up with a married man, regardless of what her initial intentions are (money, position, a father figure for her child, security, companionship, emotional support, etc). Some would blame chemistry between the man and woman. Hell no, it just affects them by chance, and is not out of the ordinary. It is either chemistry hits or it gets missed, and definitely it is powerful. A lot of marriages have been ruined by it. It would be riotous if adults give in to chemistry whenever they feel it. Intense, overwhelming emotions and feelings should not control people. This can be highly detrimental.


Emotional or not, for certain it is not only damaging for the woman, it is for him as well, for his wife, children, possibly his career, among others. It may feel great to have a person so eager to make you his focal point at the moment and some would give support and assistance. But that should make you speculate more about the motives behind that enthusiasm.

Obviously, he is a disturbed and a very deceitful guy. Why would Bill Clinton get impeached if he is trustworthy? The cheating married man is disposed to tell untruths to his wife in the nastiest manner. He may possibly verbalize the most fanciful ideas he has to you, but he is disrespecting and cheating on his wife. What if, you were the one in the wife’s place with children to think of. That definitely, as Ramona in ‘Ramona and Beezus‘ would say, “GUTS!!“ It is inexcusable. If the man’s relationship with his wife is so bad, he should do the decent thing. Maybe get a mutual divorce, give her alimony, support the kids, free his wife to meet better men than he was. Apparently, that man is only egging you on to be deceitful, get laid, be the master of your universe, and bury the proof of the affair to keep himself out of any dilemma and no other individual would be clued in on the reality of his personality defect. Pretty sick, if I may add. It’s an actual indicator of a real life predator. No well-brought-up, caring, considerate man, married or not, will encourage such an unstable and disparaging relationship if he actually cares about the woman. And if you are a woman in quest of a real man, go after the single ones. The world is a big place and there’s the Internet to help you out. If you’re a married woman seeking out revenge and wants a fair dealing from a philandering spouse....pray. Have lots of it. And always choose the right path. You are a defenseless catch for other predators as well, and there’s possibly more severe harm in that course. It is important to live and die with your dignity intact. Just get a divorce and make him pay.